'Bout Relationship *Mars and Venus*

Lets talks 'bout relationship works.

Many guys got problems with commitment, rite? But the reasons behind are always different.

They (men) could say women are sooooo complicated, couldn’t be understood, queen of drama, confusing, and all that stuffs. Yes! We girls make you guys going crazy! But you guys make us even crazier~!

The simple thing about women is that we really love commitment and secure feelings. But men sometimes look for something superficial to overcome this gap. On the other hand, guys are so confusing. They play with their own thinking and mind and logic, or anything to step forward in a relationship. They need more time to be more mature. They must be handled with strategy (heart is no longer works).

Some people said : “being in a relationship is f*cking hard”. What makes it hard : is not about loving our partner. But the consequences of loving someone. Loving someone means you got a deep tolerate and compromise of many things you don’t like toward him/her. When it comes to word “L-O-V-E” , it means that you love him/her all the way. And it requires commitment.

I find small fact that in the process of loving someone, you have to be mature first. Tolerate, compromise, forget, forgive, anger and emotion management, support, affection and COMMITMENT absolutely need matureness!! You have to be whole person. You have to be true. You have to find yourself before you find your soulmate. You have to find the real you! When you already find the real you, you don’t say about “experience”, and “try out” in a relationship. Because you already know what you want, and of course what are you looking for in finding a partner. You’ll be ready for commitment.

In men’s thinking, there’s no grey area, either it’s black or white.

But in women’s thinking, there’s grey, black, white, and even pink! (loh?).

From men’s thinking : either you did or you didn’t.

From women’s thinking :consider the reasons of doing it, and the summary of all this complicated fights is I LOVE YOU! That’s simple.

[That's the most important thing that i have to hear from u now....]