tsunami in Japan 11/03/2011

http://www.boston.com/bigpicture/2011/03/japan_earthquake_aftermath.html

Marriage

Wife: "What are you doing?"
Husband: "Nothing"
Wife: "Nothing...? You've been reading our marriage certificate for an hour".
Husband: "I was looking for the expiration date".
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Wife: "Do you want dinner?"
Husband: "Sure! What are my choices?"
Wife: "Yes and No".
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Wife: "You always carry my photo in your wallet. Why?"
Husband: "When there is a problem, no matter how impossible, I look at your picture and the problem disappears".
Wife: "You see how miraculous and powerful I am for you?"
Husband: "Yes! I see your picture and ask myself what other problem can there be greater than this one?"
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Stress Reliever Girl: "When we get married, I want to share all your worries, troubles and lighten your burden."
Boy: "It's very kind of you, darling, but I don't have any worries or troubles."
Girl: "Well, that's because we aren't married yet."
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Son: "Mom, when I was on the bus with Dad this morning, he told me to give up my seat to a lady."
Mom: "Well, you have done the right thing."
Son: "But Mom, I was sitting on daddy's lap."
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A newly married man asked his wife," Would you have married me if my father hadn't left me a fortune?"
"Honey," the woman replied sweetly,"I'd have married you, NO MATTER WHO LEFT YOU A FORTUNE!"
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Father to son after exam: "Let me see your report card."
Son: "My friend just borrowed it. He wants to scare his parents."
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Girl to her boyfriend: "One kiss and I'll be yours forever."
The guy replies: "Thanks for the early warning."
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A wife asked her husband: "What do you like most in me, my pretty face or my sexy body?"
He looked at her from head to toe and replied: "I like your sense of humor."

What Oprah said about MAN

HEAR WHAT OPRAH HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.
Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Intersting articel, really struck my attention and I have to admit that I could not agree more to what it is about.

Nb : Sisca's web

Different Culture

tadi ketemu dengan Antonia,Glenda, Kamal and Nicolle.
Hampir 3 bulan tidak ketemuan dengan mereka.
Antonia married with Indian guy, yg menurut saya mereka terlalu cepat mengambil keputusan utk menikah.Anyway ini urusan mereka mo merit cepat or not.. but only few month pacaran.
N saya menanyakan bagaimana dengan life's nya after married. Dan dia menjawab, semua nya itu indah...memulai kehidupan baru lembaran baru dan mereka memutuskan utk tinggal di Syd.
Berbeda dengan Saya yg harus pindah ke Jepang.
Ternyata cerita cerita dia harus ada ritual tiap pagi sembayang ini itu dan prepared for pray that anything should be in the right way and rules menurut adat India. But dia tidak complained soal itu.Dan mengenai saat dia visited India, some of family member berkata kasar kepadanya "u are not welcome into this family". But she said, she was pretend to be nice and good.
Dan saat itu saya tersadar, Oh..selama ini kupikir saya yg menderita,ternyata ada yg lebih menderita ketimbang saya.. and I realized How good and kind my fiancee.
At least, dia tidak pernah minta saya ritual ini itu sembayang ini itu, and all his family so welcome and sayang sama saya. Saya sangat sangat sangat beruntung sekali.

Watashi no konyakusya, aishiteru yo..

"Unbelievable" by Emi Fujita

In a sleepless night

In the puring rain

Just the feel of you makes me breathless

Let thw world away into the stars

When I taste your lips

You unfold my heart

Just to feel your breath undisquised me

Here I am in your arms, so unbelievable

I can walk a million miles

Do my time if love's a crime

Jump up high and grab the moon for you

Might sound crazy, that's what I'm about you

I believe in love

I believe in dreams

I believe in the kiss of life

When a heart with broken wings

Flies away and touches the sky

I believe us

Through the season's change

In the moments made of tears

I will breathe for you each day

You're unbelievable

When the nights are long

And the smiles are gone

'n you feel your heart's out in nowhere

Don't let go, try to see deeply within

With the memories

And the photograhs

And the promises of tomorrow

We'll survice, you and I, it's unbelievable

Engagement

I'm engaged at Aston hotel in Bali (17 January)


Psstt.. romantic candle light dinner :) Love my ring ^^

Bali im cominggg!!

1 week to go to Indoooo :)

thanks God, my mom n dad is fine.
Love you!!